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Real Life Journal

Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

8/28/2025

Why the Christian Life Is Trust, Not Striving

 
For many believers, the Christian walk gets reduced to trying harder. Salvation is seen as a gift of grace, but from there the weight of performing, proving, and keeping God pleased seems to rest on human shoulders. The result is predictable: exhaustion, guilt, and the nagging sense of never measuring up. And questions surface--is this really the “abundant life” Jesus promised?

The truth of Scripture says otherwise. At salvation, God did more than forgive—He united the believer with Christ. The old self, enslaved to sin, was crucified with Him. A brand-new person was raised, indwelt by His life. Holiness is not earned through striving; it is granted in Christ. The Christian life is not imitation by human effort but participation in Christ Himself, who lives through His people.

This reality changes how failure, temptation, and weakness are handled. Falling short no longer has to trigger shame, because God has already made provision. The answer is not self-improvement through gritted teeth, but dependence on Christ’s life within. He does not merely strengthen the weak—He is their strength. He does not simply help believers live the Christian life—He is the Christian life in them.

It also reshapes the way trials are seen. Hardship is not punishment but training ground. Difficult seasons expose misplaced reliance on self so that trust is transferred back to God. Even the thorns He allows are gifts that deepen dependence and make Christ’s life more visible. Rather than crushing, they become the soil of transformation.

The “secret” is simple yet profound: Christ lives in His people, and they live by trusting Him. That is the guarantee. Life will not be free of pain, but His life is always enough. The call is not to try harder, but to trust deeper. That is where freedom and rest are found.

Takeaway: The Christian life isn’t trying to live for Jesus—it’s Jesus living His life through His people.

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