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Real Life Journal

Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

9/7/2025

Waiting for God’s Appointed Time

 
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One of the hardest parts of the Christian life is waiting. Days stack on days, silence stretches into years, and it feels like nothing is moving. The Bible has a word for that kind of time: chronos. It’s ordinary time, the daily grind, the long road of endurance.

However, Scripture also gives us another word: kairos. This is not just any moment. It’s an appointed time, a decisive breakthrough on God’s calendar. Chronos can feel endless, but kairos is already set. It will not be early. It will not be late. It will come exactly on schedule.

We see this rhythm all through Scripture. Abraham lived in chronos for 25 years, waiting on the promise of a son. Day after day, year after year, nothing changed—until suddenly, in kairos, Sarah conceived. Joseph spent over a decade in slavery and prison, seemingly forgotten. Chronos pressed him down. But in a single kairos moment, he was lifted to second-in-command over Egypt. Even Jesus lived this tension. Again and again He said, “My hour has not yet come.  Chronos prepared Him. And then, when the hour struck, kairos arrived in the fullness of time—the cross, the resurrection, and salvation for the world.

This is how God works. He lets us walk through chronos so that endurance, patience, and faith can take root. It feels slow, but nothing is wasted. Every ordinary day is shaping us to be ready for the appointed day. And when kairos comes, it makes sense of all the waiting.

Maybe you’re in the long stretch of chronos right now. You know what you’re praying for, you’ve asked, and yet nothing has moved. Take heart: there is a kairos moment already on the books. You don’t have to make it happen. You only have to endure the days that prepare you for it. Chronos is not forever. Kairos is coming—and when it does, it will not delay.
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