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Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

10/25/2025

The Last Stronghold

 
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There comes a point in every believer’s life when God stops working around the edges and goes straight for the center. He no longer trims branches or rearranges habits. He sets His sights on the last stronghold—the part of us that still says “I’ve got this.”

It’s usually something we defend as harmless. A right, a preference, a plan that feels too personal to surrender. We’ll yield everything else, just not that. Yet God is not after partial obedience. He’s after the throne.

That stronghold can be subtle. A relationship we want to control. A dream we still measure in our own timing. A quiet resentment we refuse to release. God waits there, patient but unbending, until we lay it down. He knows that as long as one gate remains closed, we are not free.

Surrender doesn’t come by force; it comes by trust. The Spirit keeps applying gentle pressure, not to break our spirit, but to bend our will. We begin to realize that our defenses are not protecting us, they’re imprisoning us. The last stronghold is never conquered by striving; it collapses when we finally stop resisting.

When that happens, something changes. The war inside goes quiet. We stop negotiating with God and start resting in Him. The fear that once guarded the gate gives way to peace. What felt like loss turns out to be the doorway to life.

Every believer eventually faces this moment: Will I let God be God, even here?

It’s the hardest yes you’ll ever give and the most freeing.

When the last stronghold falls, you don’t lose yourself.  You find the part of you that was always meant to live surrendered.

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