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Real Life Journal

Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

10/24/2025

The Envelope and the Mailbox

 
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Faith often feels less like soaring and more like mailing something precious you may never see again.  You write your prayer carefully. You seal it inside the envelope, your heart, your hope, your longing, and you place it in God’s hands. That is faith.  Then comes the harder part: walking away from the mailbox.

Our flesh wants to stand there, peeking in, checking whether it has been picked up yet. Did God see it? Did it make it to Him? Will He respond today, tomorrow, ever? That restless need to monitor the outcome is where faith breaks down. Real faith does not babysit what it has already entrusted.  

The moment you placed it in His mailbox, it was no longer yours to manage.  When we drop something in the mail, we never chase the truck down the road to make sure it gets there. We do not worry about whether it travels through Vegas or Phoenix if it is headed for California. The route is not our concern. We trust the postmaster to know where it needs to go and how to get it there.  Faith works the same way. You release it. You let go of the path and the timing. You stop chasing what you already placed in His care.  Faith is not about forcing the delivery or tracking the timing. It is about trusting that the One who receives it knows what to do with it, even if you never see the stamped reply in this lifetime.

Sometimes God does not return the envelope. He returns you, changed, quieter, surrendered.  That is when faith moves from transaction to transformation.  When you finally stop hovering at the mailbox, you realize He has been beside you the whole time, not as a postal worker fulfilling requests, but as a Father shaping trust.

Faith is not proven in the sending.  
It is proven in the waiting.
In the walking away.
In the refusal to retrieve what you have already released.
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Whatever you are holding today, your question, your ache, your dream, write it down, seal it, and let it go.
Walk away, not in resignation, but in peace.
God picked it up the moment you let go.

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