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Real Life Journal

Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

10/29/2025

Surrender Your Problem to God

 
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We say we trust God, yet most of us still hold on to the problem. We analyze it, rehearse it, explain it, and pray about it over and over again as if God needs reminding. We say, “I cast my burden on the Lord,” but then we walk away still carrying it in our thoughts.

True peace begins when we stop trying to manage what belongs to Him. It comes when we move beyond casting and into surrender. Casting relieves the weight for a moment. Surrender releases the ownership.

When you surrender your problem to God, you are not ignoring it. You are handing it to the only One who sees every piece and already has the answer. Surrender does not mean giving up on hope; it means giving up on control. It says, “This no longer depends on me.”

Sometimes that surrender is quiet, almost invisible. Like when you finally stop rehearsing the conversation, stop searching for the right words, stop wondering what someone is doing or thinking. It is the moment your will collapses into His and you let the problem rest where it belongs.

I think of those I have counseled who have problems with their adult children.  Watching someone they love make choices that break their hearts, feeling powerless to protect them or repair what is falling apart. The ache is real. Yet surrender is not a way of abandoning love. It is love purified. It is trusting that God loves children and grandchildren even more than we do, and that His reach goes farther than worry ever could.

When we surrender our problem to God, we stop being the problem-solver and start being the peace-keeper. The mind quiets because there is nothing left to manage. The heart steadies because it remembers Who is in charge.

Surrender is not an event. It is a rhythm. Each time the thought returns, the prayer is the same: “I surrender this.”  You can fill in the blank (this person, this fear, this outcome, this day.)  Every time you say it, the loop closes and peace expands.

God never asked us to fix life. He asked us to trust Him with it. The problem is not too big, too tangled, or too late. It just needs to be surrendered. When you finally give it to Him, you will see what He has been waiting to show you all along: that He was already working on it, and He is very good at being God.

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