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Real Life Journal

Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

8/29/2025

Stewards, Not Owners

 
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One of the most freeing truths in the Christian life is this: we are stewards, not owners. Everything we have — our time, money, relationships, even our breath — belongs to God. Psalm 24:1 reminds us, “The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it.”

When we think of ourselves as owners, we carry a crushing weight. Owners must control, protect, and manage outcomes. If things go wrong, it feels like a personal failure. But when we see ourselves as stewards, the pressure shifts. A steward manages what belongs to someone else, faithfully caring for it, but without the burden of ownership. The results rest with the Master.

This changes everything. Your job? Steward it well, but remember God is the Provider. Your family? Steward them with love, but God is the One who holds their future. Even your pain and scars? Steward them as testimonies of grace, but don’t cling to them as though they define you. The peace comes when we stop grasping and start trusting.

Jesus told a parable in Matthew 25 about servants entrusted with talents. Each was asked to steward what was given, not what they didn’t have. The question was never, “Did you own it all?”  but rather, “Were you faithful with what was entrusted to you?”  That’s the question of our lives, too.

Living as stewards keeps us humble, dependent, and free. It reminds us daily: “I am not my own; I was bought with a price” (1 Cor. 6:19–20). 

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