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Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

10/29/2025

Let Yourself Be Comforted

 
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There comes a time when strength is no longer what you need. You have prayed, waited, trusted, and stood firm, but something deep inside still aches. This is not weakness. It is the soul’s way of saying, Let me rest.

The Holy Spirit is called the Comforter. He is not distant or abstract. He is the presence that comes close when explanations fail and effort runs out. Many of us love God’s power but resist His gentleness. We know how to endure, how to serve, how to press on, but not how to be comforted.

Most people want relief but will not allow comfort; it feels too intimate, too unearned. However, comfort is God’s own language for the brokenhearted. He does not wait for you to be composed before He draws near. He meets you in the ache and whispers peace where you have only known striving.

To be comforted means to stop performing strength. It means letting the Spirit place His hand on the wound instead of covering it yourself. It is an inward exhale, a quiet letting down of defenses.

This kind of rest is not escape. It is the most honest form of faith. You stop managing pain and start receiving presence. You stop telling your story as if it all depends on you and start realizing that Love has already entered the room.

​Let Him do what He came to do. Let Him meet you in silence. Let Him hold what is too tender to name.

There is no medal for staying uncomforted. There is only fatigue. Yet peace waits for those who allow themselves to be known, seen, and soothed by God Himself.

When you stop fighting the ache and allow His kindness to reach you, you find what your effort never could. Not a solution, but a stillness. Not an answer, but a presence.

Let yourself be comforted. It is not the end of faith. It is where faith finally rests.

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