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Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

8/29/2025

Grace, Not Performance

 
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One of the hardest lessons for me to learn—and the one I see trip up so many people—is that God’s blessing is never earned. It’s received. We live in a culture where everything works on performance. Work harder, produce more, prove yourself, then maybe you’ll get rewarded. Without realizing it, we carry that same mentality into our walk with God. We think if we can just do enough, be enough, fix enough, then maybe God will smile on us.

The truth is far better than that. Everything we need—peace, righteousness, blessing, favor—was already secured at the cross. When Jesus cried, “It is finished,” He wasn’t offering a slogan. He was declaring that the work is done. My striving doesn’t add to it, and my failing doesn’t take away from it. The grace of God is not wages for performance; it’s a gift given freely through Christ.

Here’s the trap: self-effort doesn’t strengthen faith, it pollutes it. The more I focus on my own ability to make things happen, the less room I leave for trust. Faith is confidence in God’s character, not my checklist. When I keep rehearsing what I need to do better, I’m really just magnifying myself. When I rest in what Christ has already done, I magnify Him.

Grace doesn’t make us lazy—it makes us free. It shifts us from grinding to receiving, from anxious striving to peaceful abiding. The more we rest in His finished work, the more fruit naturally grows. Not because we forced it, but because His Spirit produces it in us. That’s why the Gospel is called good news.

So let me remind you: you don’t need to grind your way into God’s favor. You already have it. Live from that truth, and watch what peace—and what joy—begins to grow.

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