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Real Life Journal

Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

8/28/2025

God's the Boss

 
There’s a peace that comes when you finally admit: God’s the Boss. He leads into the wilderness, He allows hunger, He permits affliction, and He disciplines His children — not because He delights in pain, but because He is shaping us into something greater. “Remember how the Lord your God led you all the way in the wilderness these forty years, to humble you and test you” (Deut. 8:2). The wilderness isn’t random; it’s training ground.

Affliction exposes what comfort conceals. Pressures surface our hidden patterns, our self-reliance, our craving for control. That’s not cruelty — that’s fatherly love. Hebrews 12 reminds us not to forget that discipline is proof of sonship: “For the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and chastises every son whom He receives” (Heb. 12:6). We may call it testing, humbling, even chastisement — but really, it is the Father refusing to leave us as we are.

When our minds keep circling unfinished stories, chasing shadows, or replaying echoes, God’s discipline is what steadies us. He doesn’t invite us to stir the echo or hunt for scraps in the valley. He calls us to hold the high ground of faith, to stop clinging to shadows, and to trust that vindication, reconciliation, or closure belong to Him. Our job isn’t to be judge or investigator. Our job is to endure, trust, and obey.

When we live as though we are the boss, life becomes unbearable. We try to solve mysteries that aren’t ours to solve, control outcomes that aren’t ours to control, and demand closure on our own terms. But when we live as though God is the Boss, we can rest. We can say, “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still” (Exod. 14:14).

So here’s the invitation: let Him be Boss. Hand Him the case file. Let Him write the ending in His time. Refuse the shadow chase and stand your ground in faith. Because at the end of the day, He’s the one who sees the whole story. He’s the Boss — and that’s the best news you’ll ever hear.

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