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Real Life Journal

Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

8/30/2025

God Reveals His Secrets by Giving and Taking

 
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One of the paradoxes of walking with God is that He reveals Himself both by what He gives and by what He takes away. Both are a kind of unveiling. Both are an invitation into deeper trust.

When God gives, the blessing is obvious. We rejoice, we give thanks, and we see His goodness made tangible. Provision, opportunity, friendships, health, clarity—all of these become living testimonies that He is for us. James reminds us that “every good and perfect gift is from above” (James 1:17). The gifts teach us something about the Giver. They are like glimpses of His open hand.

When God takes, however, it can feel cruel in the moment. We feel stripped, disoriented, even betrayed. Yet Job’s testimony remains the pattern: “The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord” (Job 1:21). Loss is often where His deepest secrets are found. In the taking, God is not being vindictive. He is refining. He is showing us that life is not sustained by the gift but by the Giver. When what we thought we couldn’t live without is gone, we discover His sufficiency in a way we never could have otherwise.

Both giving and taking are revelations of His heart. One reveals His generosity, the other His sovereignty. One shows us His kindness, the other His lordship. Taken together, they form a fuller picture of who God is—and they invite us to a steadier faith. We stop clinging to what’s in His hand and begin resting in who He is.

The secret is this: God isn’t trying to keep us guessing. He’s training us to trust. He reveals Himself in abundance, and He reveals Himself in absence. Both are gifts, because both lead us to the same conclusion—He is enough.

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