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Real Life Journal

Lee Higginbotham
​NCCA Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor

9/6/2025

Life on the Rope

 
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Most of life’s hardest waiting happens in the gap between what God has promised and what we can actually see. Hebrews 11:1 calls this faith: “the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.”  Faith doesn’t operate when everything is visible. It operates in the tension of the unseen.

Picture a rope stretched between two posts. On one end is the already — the truth you’ve settled in your heart, what God has said or stirred in you. On the other end is the not yet — the reality that hasn’t arrived. The rope only gains its strength from the pull on both sides. Without the tension, it goes slack.

This is why waiting feels so heavy: the pull stretches you. Yet the very tension that feels like it might tear you apart is what strengthens your endurance. Romans 8:25 says, “If we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience.” The unseen isn’t wasted; it’s shaping you.
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When it comes to relationships, regrets, or prayers that seem unanswered, the temptation is to escape the rope — either by letting go of the promise or by numbing yourself to the ache. But 2 Corinthians 5:7 reminds us, “We walk by faith, not by sight.”  Life in God means staying on the rope. You don’t have to resolve the paradox. You only have to keep letting Him hold both ends steady.

Maybe you’re living there right now. You know the already, but the not yet drags on. Remember this: the rope is not your enemy. The tension is not proof you’ve failed. It’s the very place God is making you strong enough to carry what’s coming.

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